As i'm reading through it, i'm nodding along in agreement "yup, that's true" "uh huh, you tell them girl" and i'm starting to notice
Now what i started thinking of is the predicament some guys
And so, an epiphany, i noticed something about the game too and please correct me if i'm wrong here, women who are faced with that dude who's everything she's ever wanted, and is seemingly the perfect balance between Mr Nice and Mr Not So Nice do not know what to do with themselves when this dude walks into their lives.
And i'll break it down into a basic observation i've made.
1) she's not too sure what to expect from him, because, like Russian Roulette, this dude could go off at any moment.
2) he makes her feel almost weightless by the way he treats her, looks at her, kisses her, and she doesn't understand or welcome the feeling of not being in control of her emotions.
3) like all of us, when dealing with the unknown, she'll retreat, because "it's too good to be true"
Now is this the fault of Mr Balance that he's expanded his portfolio and thus become a man who struck the perfect, well, balance?
I wanna leave you with a question, more-so for the ladies, but fellas you can answer too. Are we as men doomed to be one or the other, and not six of one and half a dozen of the other?